I heard Marianne Williamson say something yesterday that really caught my attention. I don't have the exact quote, but it was something like, "We're not unhappy because of what we're not getting. We're unhappy because of what we're not giving." I could expand on that, but I think it might be better if we each dig into it on our own.
Unhappy? Take a close look at the real reasons.
Happy? Look even closer, and pay attention!
Whatever we're doing in either case can be repeated.